Maximum guild members: 30
Maximum community members: 40
Eligibility:
- Age 21+ - Honor system - We don't want people to be restrained by who they are surrounded by.
- Happy with unscheduled raiding. We don't (at present) schedule raiding activities. Midlife Quest does not
intend to become a hardcore-raiding guild.
- Happy to go-with-the-flow in raiding or happy to instruct on mechanics that people may not be aware of.
Addons (including parsers) are not required here.
- Patient in raiding. Depending on the raid, difficulty can vary and sometimes new mechanics come up and
it is fair we give people a shot at figuring the mechanics out themselves the first or second time.
- Capable of being a functioning and social human being - We aren't Twitter or Facebook - we're all friends here.
- You are straight, LGBT, furry or neurodiverse (or not), of any colour;- doesn't matter. This is meant to be a
safe-space for all to learn from and for people to be able to express themselves in the ways they wish.
- Don't mind your character occasionally being on stream either on the KahoOfTheBlade stream or another of our members streams, or discussed in stream chat.
- Be OK to disagree from time to time. Your opinions are not your identity. Don't defend them like they are
otherwise you'll never be open to changing your mind and you'll look very silly if and when you do!
- As above, we're all friends here. We might ask you how your day has been and such. We aren't completely
focused on the games. Believe it or not, we have lives outside of gaming and sometimes the
things we're doing outside of games is interesting also.
Does this sound like you? In that case read on to see our general rules.
Rules and terms of membership (click to learn more):
We define hate-speech as messaging which has a negative impact on others either physically, mentally or can lead to these, examples include racism, anti-LGBT and more. Use your common sense - We're all human. Verbal warning initially, permanent ban afterward.
In todays' divisive world, politics is an emotionally-charged subject and many people are not equipped with the emotional skills to detach emotionally from a party and argue reasonably without taking it as an attack on their identity as a person, or on others. Personally I (Kaho) can debate politics as a subject until I get bored but it isn't possible to productively debate with an unreasonable person, and most people are unreasonable, so it's much easier to just say no politics. Verbal warning initially, permanent ban afterward.
That means no 'fxxking typical WoW players', 'degen ffxiv players' comments or similar. Verbal warning initially, permanent ban afterward.
This is fairly self-explanatory. Verbal warning initially, permanent ban afterward.
Also fairly self-explanatory. Flexible from timeouts to permabans, depending on severity.
Verbal warning initially, permanent ban afterward.
Discord has no mechanism to check the safety of a link before someone clicks it. Not a bannable offense unless we conclude a posted link was done with malicious intent.
We want people in the community to feel safe from judgement away from the social networks. Verbal warning initially, permanent ban afterward.
Not the kind of backseating you think. If you are about to tell someone to watch the guide before they try out content or ask if someone did before they joined, know that this is not how we work here. Games don't present people a puzzle and then immediately tell them how to solve it or to tell someone to go watch a guide on how to solve it. At one point content was new, and it's interesting to see the wheels of different players turning as they work as a group to solve something. This is what makes watching things like the World of Warcraft Race to World First fascinating, or TEA, UCoB or DSR in FFXIV. Don't take that away from players. Like spamming, flexible from timeouts to permaban depending on severity.
We are a community that (I hope) will have each others back and want each other to succeed.
We are extremely flexible here. Sometimes we burn out on raiding, sometimes we just haven't opened a game in weeks or the day job is tiring us out. If you just go idle and we don't know the situation we may reach out to see if you are OK, but after a month or two we may invite someone in to the community in your place, and if you are idle for much longer than that we may remove you. This said, we don't want to just cut ties with our members so reach out to us and we'll see what we can do, exceed our member count if need be.
We don't restrict the use of swearing however we do have some restrictions on the use of certain words or phrases, specifically those that single out some quality or trait, or is calling some aspect of someone in to question which your use of such a term may be offensive or the word by itself is offensive.
We don't keep a permanent record of infractions or issues we've had with members of the guild (for a lot of reasons). We need the flexibility to forget in certain cases.
If your behaviour outside the guild causes us and our reputation harm, either by you violating community rules or common-decency laws we will have no choice but to remove you from the community. Examples of this include sexual and domestic abuse - whilst these do not come under our rules, we don't want someone accused of this in the guild because frankly they aren't the kind of person we want here (might I recommend a prison cell?).
This might sound like we are giving ourselves the ability to take action against members for any reason we want, however the above rules don't capture every instance of wrongdoing that the community doesn't want. We won't ban you for asinine reasons. We also won't ban you for anything that skirts the above rules but does not breach it. If we can detect malice however then you'll know about it. As per the age requirement above, we're all adults here so use your common sense.
Final word:
Please don't be intimidated by these rules. We don't want to foster a culture of fear to maintain some status-quo or echo-chamber. Our eligibility above serves as a test for the kind of person we want, but also serves as a hint as to who we don't;- We don't want peddlers of disinformation, or supporters of hate for example. We want to build lifelong friendships, whether you are new to FFXIV and World of Warcraft (or any other MMORPG we expand in to) or not.
Verbal warnings usually involve me or another community manager having a one-to-one discussion with the individual involved. We get involved and try to get to the bottom of things. We don't have to, but if discourse occurs there is usually a reason behind it. Not everyone has the benefit of being surrounded by friends who will correct them before they make a fool of themselves. Permanent bans will simply be carried out without a de-escalation discussion and your position in the community offered up to someone waiting to enter. We hope we never have to do either.